Up until about a decade ago, surrogacy was only an option for very few people – straight couples who didn’t manage to have babies, who had gone through IVF treatments that failed. These couples would have an assessment done, and if they ‘got approved’, they had the privilege of having a surrogate mother who will carry their baby for them. In the last decade, the option of surrogacy has become available for many: couples, as well as singles who can’t have children in any other way. First of all, the awareness among fertility doctors and couples facing fertility problems has massively risen, and many couples who have been trying to have babies with the help of IVF treatments for a long period of time, years sometimes, are no longer taking such a long time to consider the option of surrogacy. The awareness and the growing number of couples wanting to use surrogacy as means of having children resulted in a tricky situation – it was hard to find a surrogate mother in Israel since there were not as many surrogate mothers available. Many couples had to pay a very large amount of money and yet to ‘compromise’ on a surrogate mother, one they didn’t bond with or trusted. The outcome was that the couples began to look for alternatives overseas. This crowd was joined by gay couples and singles who legally couldn’t apply for surrogacy in Israel, and who h
July 23, 2015
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July 5, 2015
The process if choosing an egg donor. I must admit, not an easy one. Before looking at the profiles of the egg donors I thought “for sure it will be an easy task”. I am about 40egg donor profiles after, and it’s not quite as I imagined. Is it the egg donor’s looks that I should decide upon? Egg donor’s health? Should I be paying attention to how educated the egg donor is? Her personality? I had given the egg donation ordeal quite some thought. What should my decision be based on? For days I reviewed the egg donors profiles, finally managed to narrow it down to my 10 favorite egg donors. That definitely made me feel great.
I finally decided that the most important thing for me is the egg donor’s health, and her looks. As for the the rest – education and personality – I plan to provide my baby a safe and loving environment where he or she can flourish, and I have no doubt my baby will become the amazing person that I wish her to be.
Of course I always keep in mind, one side to this is the egg donor, her looks, traits, personality, still there is always the other half – my half (-:
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